I think that there are no guarantees to anything, ever, but that's a very poor reason not to try.
People that are important like that aren't found around every corner. It's rare enough to find one, right? Two is maybe a little extraordinary. When you find something that could make you happy, then you don't let it slip away. It would be a bit ridiculous to call me anything like an expert, but it seems shortsighted to say there's only one right way to have a relationship.
I told my brother, once, that were he to find some love that was his, was real, that he should hold fast and never let it go. Because it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks, not really. You find your havens where you can.
Which is not to say that such a thing would be easy. But then, it might be. In any case, I think it's better to know what is than wonder what could have been.
[that startles a laugh out of her, not that he can hear it.]
Why Isaac, I never knew.
Connor and I have had quite a number of awkward conversations on topics such as getting him to touch me in the first place, fertility, and explaining to people we were moving in together. Meeting his father was also rather awkward. And then some funny ones, like the checklist.
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hey can i ask you something? not really advice or anything just... your thoughts
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but if you like two people who are obviously in love with one another and then they both sort of admit attraction to you as well
...does stuff like that actually work out? outside of playboy i mean
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People that are important like that aren't found around every corner. It's rare enough to find one, right? Two is maybe a little extraordinary. When you find something that could make you happy, then you don't let it slip away. It would be a bit ridiculous to call me anything like an expert, but it seems shortsighted to say there's only one right way to have a relationship.
I told my brother, once, that were he to find some love that was his, was real, that he should hold fast and never let it go. Because it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks, not really. You find your havens where you can.
Which is not to say that such a thing would be easy. But then, it might be. In any case, I think it's better to know what is than wonder what could have been.
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i guess you have a point.
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ill see what they say. i guess the worst is that allison will still be weird about scott and probably hate me or something
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I don't think anyone is going to hate you for liking them, Isaac, whether or not they return the feeling.
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i guess thats sort of what im worried about
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Her being mad isn't out of the question. But she doesn't exactly have claim to him anymore, and you said they'd both expressed interest in you before.
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everything is kind of confusing right now
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its just really awkward okay
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I promise I know. But the corresponding anecdote is rather embarrassing.
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Why Isaac, I never knew.
Connor and I have had quite a number of awkward conversations on topics such as getting him to touch me in the first place, fertility, and explaining to people we were moving in together. Meeting his father was also rather awkward. And then some funny ones, like the checklist.
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i thought you were talking about cutesy love stuff
uh that sounds like something that i might not need to know about you actually
at least not while you still have a boyfriend
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I am not very cutesy, you may have noticed. He's much better at all that than I am, in truth.
And your love life may currently be complex enough without additional help from me.
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