Then it'll just be another thing we have to deal with because of our situation. It's not our fault that he's not here.

I don't think it's his fault either, but he had tried to figure things out. I think if he had just left and hadn't even cared to try that it would feel a lot crappier. [It was sort of how it felt with her and Derek, so she can speak from a tiny bit of her own perspective.]